28.Avoid fights. Seriously. Avoid them like a plague: nobody wins in a fight, even if you walk awayunscathed. But when a fight picks you, leave everything on the mat and give it your all. Holdnothing back.
18.Ultimately, privacy is a myth: God sees everything. The cloud records everything. NSA fileseverything. So, live transparently and don’t waste useless energy hiding failures.
14.Don’t set expectations for others when they haven’t or cannot commit to them.
生活里没有什么比得上天堂里永恒的快乐——疼痛、痛苦或者失败都是值得的。活在永恒的快乐中吧!
19.Don’t look down on others because they don’t have what you didn’t earn—your intellect, yourbeauty, and your culture of birth are undeserved gifts…be humble.
11.Don’t bother comparing yourself to others—this only leads to heartbreak, anger, anddisappointment.
17.Little stuff matters—even in lowly jobs. The boss notices and even if not, your peers andcolleagues do.
32.Protect your joy. Nothing is easier to lose by over-thinking, overanalyzing, and second-guessing. On the other hand, always consider the long-term consequences of your choices: stupiddecisions made in the moment can rob you of years of joy and happiness.
为自己健康的体魄感到高兴，因为健康容易很快消逝。
该道歉时就道歉。道歉的时间要尽快、态度要真诚，还要亲自去道歉——趁怨恨还没有滋生的时候。
你精心栽培的友情对你的人生有很大影响，甚至超过了你工作的地方和学习到的知识。
15.Don’t complain. Either change your situation, learn to cope, or change your perspective.
不要抱怨。你可以努力改变自己的处境、学习解决问题或者转换一下自己的视角。
25.Everybody needs an editor. Everybody.
21.Never withhold an apology when it’s merited. Deliver it quickly, sincerely, and personally—before resentment festers.
3.You are not your job. You are not your bankroll. You are not the sum of your possessions.
6.Love is a commitment.
2.The friendships you nurture will have a greater effect on your life than where you work or whatyou earn.
我还在不停地学习——实际上，我还没有完全领会我所列出的清单。而且，我还在补充这个清单。但是，我变得越来越好了!
26.Get your work done first so you can play without guilt. Even better, make work play and thefun never ends!
30.The skills that will help your career most are the abilities to assimilate, communicate, andpersuade. Keep learning.
先把工作做完，这样你才能没有负担地玩了。更好的做法是，把工作当做一种乐趣，这样你的快乐就无穷无尽了。
找到让你感觉到激情的事情。选择一个爱好，拥有它：摄影、杂技或者随便什么。早点享受犹如纯10k金般珍贵的时间，从此改变你的生活。
27.If you want to develop your passion and gift, stop worrying about the things you do poorly.Go with your strengths!
如果你想要发展自己的激情和天赋，不要为自己做得不好的事情焦虑了，专注于自己的长项!
23.Mere belief in anything signifies little more than assent. It’s trust and behavior that reveal whereconvictions lie.
I’m still learning — in fact I haven’t fully appreciated most of the list I made, myself. And I’m stilladding to it. But I’m getting better.
爱是一种承诺。
5.Few decisions will ever shape your future life more than who you choose to marry. To marrywell, you must choose well.
最后，真正的秘密是不存在的：上帝看得到所有的事情。云朵记录着一切。国家安全局把一切记录在案。所以，请坦荡地生活，不要浪费力气去掩盖失败。
如果别人还没有决定或者没有能力完成一些目标，那就不要给他们设置这些目标。
29.If you’re bored, you’re doing it wrong.
当你已经二十几岁了，你会明白自己已经长大了，需要变得成熟了。别人都不会再当你是个孩子了，而是会把你当做成年人一样对待。这是你应该要面对的事实。你越早学会生活里最难的课程，你就能越早地过上光彩成功的生活。里奇· 塔特姆在quora上分享了他希望自己在20岁的时候就已经能够明白的那些最不容易的事情。
你选择和谁结婚是决定你未来人生的最重要的决定，没有之一。和对的人结婚，前提是你要做出对的选择。
每个人都需要一个编辑。每个人!